那些來來去去的.....我會試著放棄！
突然的，有一種很深的感慨，即使當初在怎樣患難與共的友情，終有一天會昇華，成為偶而才會聯絡的朋友。只又能在同學會或是結婚典禮上才會在度重逢。過去，我很在乎這種感覺，每次只要又失去聯絡，我就會難過好久好久不能自己。而現在我想我是想開了，很多感情不能強求，友誼也是。每個過程中，都會有一群朋友陪你一起歷經。小學一起玩耍，一起因為班上那個功課很好的班長而有畢生初次的girl's talk；國中面對升學考試的壓力，還一起同仇敵愾的對付那個討厭的數學老師兼班導；到了專科為了社團盡心盡力，也為了同時喜歡上一個學長然後不說話好久。每一段都是那麼與眾不同，都是那麼可歌可泣。可是不知為了什麼，一但出了社會，各自有著各自的生活重心 (不管是工作還是談戀愛或是家庭) ，聯絡變少了，共同的話題也越來越少了。偶爾的聚會變成難得可貴，從每個月的聚會變成每兩個月，後來又會變成每季，之後又會拉得多長就不得而知了。
最近，發生很多類似的事。約好的約會流了；那個朋友不再跟你說心事了，他的事情你是由別人才得知的；另外一個同事交了男友也不熱衷於姊妹們的會面，還有許多許多。最後，我放開了..........
來來去去，就像季節的交迭，規律的、無聲無息的。
我感嘆季節的變化，也會喟嘆人世的無常。
但是，我想我是該放棄不強求的。才會真正享受當下，珍惜生活。
是突然，有了這個深刻的體會與領悟。
在現在，凌晨一點的時分。
posted by Louise @ 00:29
1 Comments:
给你,
来来去去，都是有它的原因的。
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People always come into your life for
A REASON,
A SEASON,
OR A LIFETIME.
When you figure out which it is, You know exactly what to do...When someone is in your life
FOR A REASON,
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly... They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually...They may seem like a Godsend, and they are... they are there for a reason you need them to be...Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, Or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end... sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand...What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; Their work is done...The prayer you sent up has been answered And it is now time to move on...
When people come into your life FOR A SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn...they may bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh...they may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount
Of joy...Believe it! It is real! But, ONLY FOR A SEASON...And like Spring turns to Summer
And Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.
LIFETIME RELATIONSHIPS teach you a lifetime of lessons; Those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation...Your job is to accept the lesson, Love the person/people (anyway); And put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life...
It is said that love is blind, but friendship is clairvoyant...
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